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"I KNOW WHAT I NEED TO DO, I JUST DON'T KNOW IF I HAVE THE STRENGTH TO DO IT" SPREAD
When There's a Change or Decision You Need to Make, and You Need Some Guidance and Motivation
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​What past experiences or core beliefs are informing my fears and anxieties and making this decision more difficult? What shadows are clouding my vision?
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How have I learned from these experiences? What lessons can I take with me into this new challenge?
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How am I getting stuck in this process? What can I do to get unstuck?
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How can I get more grounded when things feel hard and I need to accept change. What resources do I have at my disposal? How can I get help?
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How to tap into my inner wisdom? What inspiration can I draw from to help motivate me? What is my gut telling me?
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Two cards that represent the lessons that I might learn as I face this challenge and make some hard decisions.
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Blessings, advice, and possible warnings, to inform me and give me strength as I take this difficult step toward betterment.
We all have those moments where we know that something needs to happen, and we are avoiding the challenging steps to initiate a change, walk away from something, or simply admit that we kinda maybe fucked up. This spread will offer some guidance on finding your strength. So why not ask the cards for a little enlightenment, even though you probably already have the answer. Watch out, you might find yourself saying "Fine! Tell me something I don't know". But sometimes we just need that little reminder to quit stalling. This is a great spread for dealing with avoidance in and out of therapy.
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